Around junior year of college, a guy that we both knew from high school (whom I had a major crush on) came with me to visit Sadie one weekend. We were still close during college, and I constantly went to visit her and became friends with her college friends. Every time she got in trouble, she blamed it on me. Sadie and I became the closest of friends, but her mother was pretty strict, so Sadie liked to rebel. "Freshman year, I made friends with a girl we’ll call her Sadie. I've never felt more loved in a friendship before."ġ8. I put more effort in my university friends, and I'm glad I did. That's when I realized my 'best friend' simply didn't care about me if she couldn't find it in herself to be saddened by how I was feeling. "I realized I needed to cut ties when a new university friend in my new trio told us she felt left out, and I wanted to cry because I didn't want her to feel like that. Her answer always was to diminish my feelings, to tell me how I felt was 'whatever,' and that I was exaggerating. I told her I felt left out, that it saddened me when they did stuff together that I had expressed wanting to do, and that I wished she talked to me more. For a few years, I kept trying to express my feelings to her. I started to feel left out and like my best friend clearly preferred the other friend. It started to go wrong in high school, when we became a trio with another friend. "I recently ghosted someone who had been my best friend for 17 years. When I found all that out, I completely cut ties with her."ġ6.
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Now, because I was living in a different state, my ex was granted full custody as to not mess up their lifestyle. "She also said that I was dating a child molester and convinced him to file for full custody of our kids. At first I was grateful to have her back, but after talking with her, I found out that she had told my ex-husband that I was trying to sleep with her husband while I was there and was not taking care of my children. Out of the woodwork, here she comes trying to be my hero. Fast forward eight months: I have left the guy I was seeing and met the absolute best man ever. She kicked me out of her house and told me to never speak to her again. I started dating a man who she did not like. I started heavily drinking and not taking care of myself. I went through a really bad divorce, lost my job, and moved three hours away to live with her and her family. "The worst thing is that no one told me, and everyone knew: his sister, his mom, his aunt, his two best friends who claimed to be my friends as well. It was a threesome with my husband, my best friend, and her best friend." Two years later, I get with my now-partner, and he tells me that my best friend had slept with my husband as well, because she bragged about it. So I emailed my best friend and told her that I knew what happened and that since she knew about it, I wasn't going to speak to her ever again. He felt guilty and just told me while I was in there: It was with my best friend's best friend. I had to go to rehab, and while I was there, my husband had cheated on me. I guess I thought we were closer than we were. I personally suffer from mental illness, so having someone close meant so much to me.